Are you tired of feeling lonely, emotionally stuck or repeatedly ending up in relationships
that do not give you
the connection you genuinely want?

The Reset is private weekly coaching for English-speaking gay men over 40 who want to rebuild their confidence, understand their relationship patterns and create a happier, more fulfilling personal life.

The Reset is an inclusive coaching programme. I also support individuals and couples of every gender and
sexual orientation.

The Reset may be right for you if:

You feel lonely, even when you are dating or in a relationship
You keep repeating relationship patterns that leave you hurt or disappointed
You know something needs to change, but you feel emotionally stuck
You have lost confidence after heartbreak, rejection or an unhealthy relationship
You want a meaningful relationship but are unsure how to create one
You are ready to understand yourself better and make practical changes
in your life

You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out. The first step is simply an honest conversation.

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Your first month of The Reset costs €160 and includes:

Four private 60-minute coaching sessions with me
Personal WhatsApp support between sessions
Practical guidance tailored to your relationships, confidence and personal circumstances
A confidential, non-judgemental space to understand what is keeping you stuck
No long-term commitment
Sessions are delivered online in English, so you can join from anywhere.

What is included

Your first step is a free 30-minute Reset Clarity Call. This gives us an opportunity to discuss what you are experiencing and decide whether The Reset is the right support for you.

Book a Free Reset Clarity Call

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What change can look like

One client came to me feeling trapped in a deeply unbalanced relationship. Although the client knew the relationship was not giving them the love, fairness or security they deserved, their emotional attachment made leaving feel almost impossible.

Through our coaching work, the client rebuilt their confidence, recognised their self-worth and began to trust their own judgement. With greater clarity and belief in themselves, they made the decision to leave the relationship.

Since then, the client has become happier and more self-confident, made strong progress in their business and begun a healthier relationship that offers the kind of connection they had always wanted.

What change can look like

“At a difficult time in my relationship, Will helped me focus on what was important for me and my life. He was able to identify different emotions and helped me focus my energy towards the best outcome.

Thanks for your support, Will.”

Client following five private coaching sessions

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How The Reset works

1. Book a free Reset Clarity Call

We will talk privately about what is happening in your life, what you would like to change and whether I am the right person to support you.

2. Begin your first month

You will receive four private 60-minute coaching sessions, normally held weekly, together with WhatsApp support between sessions.

3. Decide whether to continue

There is no long-term commitment. At the end of the month, you can continue with The Reset if the coaching is helping you move forward.

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I am Will Phillips, a relationship and energy transformation coach based in Sitges, Barcelona.

I help people understand the emotional patterns, beliefs and relationship dynamics that keep them feeling stuck. My approach is warm, honest and practical. I will support you without judgement while also helping you face the changes that may be necessary to create a happier and healthier life.

As a gay man and an expat myself, I understand how loneliness, relationships and rebuilding your life can feel particularly complicated when you are living away from familiar support networks.

The Reset is not about telling you how to live. It is about helping you understand yourself more clearly, trust your own judgement and take meaningful steps forward.

Why work with me?

You do not have to remain stuck

You may already know that something needs to change, even if you are not yet sure what that change should be.

A free 30-minute Reset Clarity Call gives you a private, no-pressure opportunity to talk about what is happening and explore what support may help you move forward.